While many people think that marriage is a bed of roses, they forget the fact that roses have thorns. Hence many couples are thrown into confusion when they realize that things are not as smooth-sailing as they had imagined.
The only time when some couples really enjoy their married lives is during honeymoon. Soon after they get into the nitty gritty of a married life, some couples face a lot of challenges that threaten to throw them apart.
Life is often very stressful, and this easily affects emotions. You may notice that your husband’s feelings seem to have changed, and you will begin to wonder whether he does not love you any more. However, you do not have to be in a constant state of uncertainty. There are some important signs that will help you to determine when your husband is falling out of love with you. The following are some of the things you should keep an eye on.
Perhaps your husband used to enjoy spending as much time as he could possibly squeeze with you at home. He would come back as soon as he was from work. If he seems to be looking for any kind of excuse to stay away from home now, you should not take it for granted. He may start taking extra work or getting involved in other activities outside the home.
This may be a sign that he is trying to avoid dealing with something at home. The thing could be that he no longer loves you as before.
Lack of interest in your personal life
Another important sign that your husband no longer loves you deeply is when he seems less concerned about what happens in your life. When he hardly asks about how your day has been, and he doesn’t seem to care what you have been through, this is a warning signal that his love is drying up.
Lack of intimacy
Husbands who love their wives are normally very intimate with them. If your husband no longer appears to be interested in an intimate life with you, chances are that he is falling out of love.
In order for you to reach a better conclusion, you should also consider how he behaves towards you in general. His lack of intimacy may be due to another reason all together. When he seems to be aloof most of the time in addition to loss of interest in intimacy, this is a warning signal.
When you take note of such signs in addition to paying attention to your instincts, you will be able to determine if your husband no longer loves you. Then you will need to take corrective measures to bring back the sparkle in your marriage.
BDST: 1326 HRS, AUG 05, 2012
Edited by: Sharmina Islam, Lifestyle Editor
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